Transcendent Moments
We all experience transcendent moments in our lives, but for children these moments can be especially beautiful and memorable. Watching a child laugh with joy, explore a new environment, or simply take their time appreciating the beauty of the world around them can be a wonderful reminder of the beauty of life. These moments can also be a powerful tool for teaching and for growing.
Learning to be present and mindful of these moments can help children to develop resilience and to foster a sense of security. When we take the time to slow down and really appreciate these moments, we can help children to learn to recognize and pay attention to the joys of life. This can help them to build a strong sense of self-worth and self-esteem.
We can also use these moments to bond with our children and to build strong relationships. Noticing the beauty of these moments, and taking the time to share in them, can help to create a sense of connection and understanding between us and our children.
Taking time to appreciate these moments and to help children to foster a sense of security, self-esteem, and connection can have a powerful impact on children's development and wellbeing. Recognizing these moments and taking time to savor them can help children to learn to recognize and appreciate the beauty of life.
Try these:
1. Watching a child take their first steps: This simple act of learning to walk transcends the physical world as they shift from being completely dependent on their caregivers to exploring their environment independently.
2. Witnessing a child's pure joy and wonder in experiencing something new: Whether it's seeing the ocean for the first time, witnessing a live performance, or coming across a wild animal, the awe and excitement in their eyes transcends everyday life, reminding us of the beauty in ordinary moments.
3. Listening to a child's innocent and profound observations about life: Children often have a unique perspective on the world that can challenge our own understanding of the complexities around us. Their innocence and curiosity can lead to profound thoughts, reminding us of the transcendent power of thought and questioning.
4. Seeing a child show empathy and compassion towards others: When a child shows genuine concern for someone in need, it transcends their own self-interest and teaches us about the power of kindness and compassion in creating a better world.
5. Watching a child discover their own talents and passions: Whether it's finding a love for a particular sport, musical instrument, or creative pursuit, witnessing a child's genuine excitement and dedication to their passions can be a transcendent experience. It reminds us of the importance of nurturing our own passions and living fully in our own pursuits.
6. Observing the deep bond between a child and their loved ones: Whether it's between siblings, parents and children, or even close friends, the love and connection shared by children can transcend words and bring a sense of unity and belonging to all those involved.
7. Seeing a child overcome a personal challenge or fear: Whether it's conquering a fear of swimming, speaking in front of others, or something more significant, witnessing a child's determination and resilience can be a truly transcendent experience. It reminds us that we have the power to overcome our own obstacles and grow stronger in the process.
Authors: Stephanie Mace, Brodi Killen, and Samantha Pearce; Educational and Developmental Psychologists - With You Allied Health Directors